Fun on the Homefront

Just wanted to say Hello and give a quick update with some pictures. Things are going amazingly well since our return home. Better than we could have ever hoped for. Clare is doing great and learning more and more English words every day. She seems to be understanding much of what we tell her in English and she is beginning to interject a few English words here and there when she is talking. She still rambles on (and on!) in Chinese and loves to tell animated stories. Of course we don't understand most of it but it is too cute.

As you can see from the pictures she is quite comfortable in her new surroundings. She now loves the animals after starting out 2 and 1/2 weeks ago absolutely terrified. Check her out with Brownie our dog.

There's no place like Home!

Yes we are home and very happy! So sorry it has taken a week to post on our travels to home. We made it home safe and sound Saturday night 4/12 at 10:00 pm. Our wonderful sister-in-law Melissa picked us up at the airport and was waiting holding a sign welcoming Clare home. Thank you Melissa!
Our plane trip home really went well after a rough start with a 5:00 am wake up to get to the airport in China. Clare was not to happy to be shuttled around at such an early hour. After a power nap on the flight from China to Tokyo, Japan things improved greatly. Our 12 hour flight to Detroit(which I was really worried about) went really well. Clare slept for a good 5-6 hours and we were able to entertain her the rest of the time- even though we were speaking different languages!
Sunday was a wonderful day- the sun was shining and we went outside first thing in the morning. Everything looks so beautiful- Spring is in full bloom. The grass is green and the dogwoods and azaleas look better than ever before! Our neighbors came out when they saw us out and about. It was great to see everyone and Clare got to meet the neighborhood gang. She was off and running in no time! It was really a great sight to see. We are so grateful to be home safe and healthy and our long journey complete.
By late afternoon we were really feeling the affects of our jet lag and the 12 hour time difference. Clare fell asleep for what we thought was a nap around 5:00 pm- instead she was done for the night! She slept until 5:00 am Monday morning.
Our sister-in-law Melissa came through yet again- her and my brother Jay arrived around 6:00 pm with a full cooked dinner for us. It was a great meal and it couldn't have been more needed- we were really exhausted and it was such a luxury to have an entire dinner delivered our first night home. Thank you again Melissa!

The week went well as we all recovered from jet lag. Jack bounced back just fine and went to school on Monday. Clare and Mom went to Jack's school on Tuesday for lunch and playground time and Clare got a VIP reception from all of Jack's classmates at St. Mary's. It was really wonderful. Jack was quite the proud big brother- as he should be! Each day got better as we got into the swing of being home. Clare is really quite the character. She is also very strong willed and definitely wants her way. As I write this it's Sunday and today was our first day without a "meltdown" the entire day. We're making progress!

Attached are pictures from our travels to home.

Homeward Bound

It's 11:00 pm in China and we are packed and ready to go. We can't believe the journey is almost complete.
We went to the American Consulate today and got Clare's visa for immigration to the U.S. When the plan lands at the airport in Detroit she will officially be a citizen of the greatest country in the world!
Jack, John, and Clare all got haircuts before heading home tomorrow. Attached are a couple pictures. We went to dinner with our great friends who we have met along the way. We have spent so much time together and we were really lucky to have such great people to share this experience with. Joe and Cheryl, Michelle and Frank- Thank you. It has been wonderful.
We leave tomorrow at 8:00 am (8:00 pm Friday night Greenville time) We will be in Greenville at 10:00 pm Saturday night- we hope! See you soon.
Thank you for all your prayers and support. We love you all.

We're almost there!

We are feeling great. Clare is getting better and better each day. Saying lots of English words and seems very happy. She is definitely a character.

We roamed around a bit today- it's very walkable here. In the afternoon we gathered with our group for pictures. It is a tradition to talk pictures on the famous "red couch" here at the hotel.

The waterfall picture is from here in the hotel- you can see why we feel like we're in the Emerald City now.

Apparently Clare feels strongly about keeping a good amount of moisturizer on her face. Here's a picture of her face moisturizer application.

We'll post again tomorrow before we head for home. We're almost there!

The Land of Oz

We're out of the dark, we're out of the woods we're into the light! We feel like we're in Emerald City. We are now in Guangzhou, China

The end is in sight. Only 2 days until Saturday and we're homeward bound. Sorry we have been out of touch- we had a computer glitch and had trouble getting online. We're up and running again. Yeah!

Yesterday we flew from Shenyang to Guangzhou. This was our short warm up flight for the trip home. It was 3 hours and 40 minutes. All went well. We are now at our last stop before we head home. We are here to get a travel visa for Clare. We are staying at the White Swan Hotel which is famous for all the adoptive families that stay here. It feels wonderful. All kinds of people speaking English and lots of cute babies and kids. No one is staring at us- it's great.

Guangzhou is a tropical city- at some point in history the British were here so it seems very different from where we were. It almost has a Charleston feel- somewhat provincial or colonial. But the city has been here for 2000 years- quite a long history.

Today was the medical exam day for Clare and then we went shopping to a very large complex with a huge times square type central courtyard. We had lunch at McDonalds. We never eat McDonalds at home but it was awfully good. We needed an Amercian meal after many Chinese dinners.

Attached are some pictures from the last few days. All is well. Clare is responding to her new name and starting to say a few things in English. Surprisingly, she can sing the ABC's from her pre-school in China. It is very cute. She is quite a character and we are loving every minute of it. Her transition to our family has really been remarkable- we feel like it's really a miracle!

We can't wait to see everyone. We are counting the hours!

Homesick

Sorry about the absence of the taxi ride on the previous blog. I had been feeling pretty computer savvy but I guess I had inflated my skill level. If I can find a geek with our group I'll see if I can get someone to help my post the taxi ride.

Well, It's Sunday night in China. Jack and Clare are sleeping. We are in the hotel room counting down our time here. On Tuesday at noon we fly to Guangzhou, which is a 4.5 hour flight. We have to go there to visit the American Consulate and get an American passport and Visa for Clare. All adopted Chinese children going to the U.S. must leave the country through Ghangzhou. We can't wait to go!

We have done something fun every day but the days stretch out so long in foreign city in a hotel room. We are so very homesick for everything- our home, our family and friends, our pets, green grass, open space, running outside on the path in our neighborhood,ice in our drinks, forks, mowing the lawn, seeing the spring in bloom in Greenville, the list goes on and on. Tomorrow is Monday so we can see the end in sight. We can't wait to board that plane on Saturday morning to head home. I guess I better re-word that and say we can't wait to get off the plane in Greenville. The flight home with our little spitfire non-English speaking Chinese daughter is a bit daunting. To be honest I'm terrified! One way or another we'll get through it.

The journey continues..........we'll keep posting. Thank you for all your love, prayers and support.

Catholic Church and a Taxi Ride

Well we got really brave today and the four of us went out on our own. It's Sunday so we took a cab to a Catholic Church. It was marked on the city map from the hotel-it just said Catholic Church. We didn't know if it was a historic site of an old church or an actual active church with Mass. We found a beautiful old church under renovation so it must be actually operating. Unfortunately we could not go in because of the renovation. There was a Catholic Book Store with hours posted- not open today but looked like it was current. We were so surprised how the building looked- as you can see by the pictures it has an old European type architecture. Very beautiful. We could not find a cornerstone with the year it was built. Wish we could have found out more but there was not an English speaking person to be found. The city where we are is not so international like Beijing. Just being out in public causes everyone to look at us then add to that we have a Chinese child with us who is speaking Mandarin Chinese and we cannot. It's quite a spectacle. Wish we had a movie about the whole thing. It's really quite an experience. Just so you can get a sense for driving and traffic in the city we are attaching a video that John took from the front seat of the taxi. It is unbelievable. This is a normal trip in the car around the city.

Funny Clare Picture

This is a funny picture of Clare(no, that's not how the bathing suit is supposed to be, she has the top on her bottom.).

Our Chinese Friends

Free time pictures and activities

Sorry we have not put any more pictures on until now. We have been doing lots of roaming around and snapping pictures- we just hadn't updated the blog.
Things are going great. Clare has quite a little personality. Very strong willed and independent and really quite a character. If she wants to do something without our help, she lets us know in no uncertain terms! She reads us the riot act, as they say. Of course we don't know what she is saying.
At some point every day she has a meltdown because she wants something and we can't understand her. We call Dennis our coordinator and he has helped us work through it. It's got to be frustrating for her to be voicing her needs and not have us understand. We are saying simple things in English and repeating them so she can start to learn some works. Today she learned Peanut Butter- we had it for lunch and she loved it. We don't know if she's ever had it before or not.
Here are some pictures of things we've done the last couple days. Yesterday we went to a park and rented a junker tandem bike. It was a big hit with the kids. We are with two other families who have adopted 6 yr. old boys. They are quite the characters.

Clare at the Pool

Here are a few pictures from the pool, Dad just couldn't wait to get her going in the water.

More About Clare

Hi everybody this is Jack again. I'm just writing this to tell you some more about Clare. Well lets start with this, she LOVES to be naked and running around everywhere. It is really funny when she does because she is always playing some pretend game on the phone and stuff. Like I said in my other post, she loves to eat snacks, and just generally eat. Another thing that you probably had no idea about is that she loves to watch Chinese soap operas. To look at her face when she is watching, you can tell she is really into it. Well, that's about all of Clare. Ohhhh ya she also loves to watch me and my dad swim.

News from Jack

Hi everybody this is Jack again. Today we went to the Imperial palace and Clare had a very good time. Most of the time she wanted me and my dad to hold her. We saw some very, very ancient stuff. She had a moment where she said, "Yao sha nia", which means, "I need to go pee" right when we were in the middle of walking through the palace. That turned out to be pretty funny because there are no bathrooms there. So our coordinator took her behind an ancient lion statue, held her up, and let her pee. On the way back on the bus, she crashed. She just instantly, out of nowhere, layed down on my mom's lap and, BAM, she was asleep. Well over all like I said it was a very fun time for me and Clare.

Free Day in Shenyang

We were supposed to sightsee today but it was raining this morning so we are hanging out at the hotel. Wow it's going to be a long week staying in at a hotel and trying to pass the time. We went to the fitness area and played ping pong- or table tennis as they call it here in China.
We needed our coordinator to come to our room this morning to help translate for us. Clare decided to be naked today and not get dressed. She was emphatic about something but we didn't know what it was since it was all in Chinese. After some interpretation from Dennis our coordinator she decided to go ahead and get dressed.
We were showing Clare our picture book from home and Dennis was explaining to her in Chinese what we were saying about each picture. When she saw a picture of our cats she told him she does not like cats, she is afraid of them because they bite. Oh boy, Jack has his work cut out for him.
We are attaching various pictures we've taken. There is no doubt she has really taken to Daddy or Ba-Ba as she calls him in Chinese.